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How To Choose A Durable Engagement Ring

An engagement ring is more than just a piece of jewellery, it’s a symbol of love, commitment, and a lifetime of memories. Unlike other accessories, this ring will be worn every day, making durability just as important as beauty. The smallest details, from band thickness to setting style, can make a world of difference in ensuring your ring stands the test of time. 

Here’s what to consider when choosing an engagement ring that is as resilient as it is stunning.

Band Thickness

A delicate, thin band may look pretty, but it’s also more prone to bending and damage over time. We recommend a minimum band thickness of 1.8 to 2 millimetres to keep the ring strong and secure. This provides enough strength to withstand daily wear while still maintaining an elegant look. If you have an active lifestyle, a slightly thicker band can offer even greater durability without compromising on style.

CAD drawings of jewellery design depicting ring thickness and measurements

Setting Style

The way your gemstone is set plays a crucial role in protecting it from damage. A high-set stone might catch on clothing or be more vulnerable to knocks, while a well-designed, protective setting keeps it secure. Bezel settings, for example, encase the stone in a wall of metal, offering the most protection. Prong settings can also be durable when designed thoughtfully, ensuring the prongs firmly grasp the stone while reducing exposure to impact and protecting vulnerable corners and points.

Realisting CAD renderings of engagement ring designs with bezel settings and prong settings

Ring Profile

Choose a cathedral ring profile to support your stone settings. A cathedral profile features arches that rise from the band to support the centre stone, much like the sweeping architecture of a grand cathedral. This elegant design isn’t just about aesthetics—it also strengthens the ring’s structure by reinforcing the setting. By distributing pressure more evenly across the band, a cathedral setting helps the ring endure daily wear with greater resilience, ensuring your gemstone stays secure and resistant to daily knocks.

Realistic CAD renderings of engagement ring design with cathedral ring profile

The Right Ring Size

A ring that doesn't fit perfectly is more than just an inconvenience—it can compromise the ring’s longevity. A ring that’s too loose risks slipping off, while one that’s too tight can put undue pressure on the finger and can lead to swelling and skin damage. In the worst case scenario, you may need to have it cut off by a professional if the finger swells and you cannot take it off. Having your ring professionally sized ensures both comfort and security, allowing you to wear it confidently every day.

Blue sapphire and diamond engagement and wedding ring set on hand

Bespoke Craftsmanship

Mass-produced rings often use generic settings that aren’t tailored to the exact shape and size of the gemstone. This can lead to weaknesses in the setting, making the stone more susceptible to loosening over time. Choosing a bespoke engagement ring ensures that the setting is crafted precisely for your gemstone, providing a secure and seamless fit. A made-to-measure setting enhances durability while also showcasing the stone in the most beautiful way possible.

Every element of your engagement ring contributes to its longevity, from the band thickness to the craftsmanship behind its setting. By prioritising durability alongside beauty, you’re investing in a ring that will remain just as stunning decades from now as the day you first put it on. Working with a bespoke jewellery designer allows you to create a ring that is not only unique to you but also built to last. With expert craftsmanship, made-to-measure settings, and high-quality materials, your engagement ring will be a timeless symbol of love—one you can wear with confidence every single day.

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